I will agree that there are some scary folk out there in fandom, though.  In various camps.  I try to spend my time laughing at the stupid and keeping to myself and my little comm on LJ.  

I have no community, but I have decided I have a huge crush on Draco and as I am reluctantly reading book 6 I get a huge grin on my face every time he is mentioned and, apparently, he's mentioned quite a lot. I especially love chapter 7 so far. Never mind ships, I want him for me  
 
 And... holy shit!  Jan really lost her stuff, huh?
Jan? She lost her marbles, her screws, her wits, her temper... The usual.