I think that when you couldn't go to any thread without the husband crap, it crossed the line.
It wasn't EVERY thread... :oops:
I think Red answered that comment better than me.
And, tbh, I stopped thinking about my post count early on, which is weird for me. I only replied when I wanted to make a comment. It may have been seen as spam, but I very rarely posted anything as fluffy as "I agree" and that's it. I have my own forums which I've moderated in the past and therefore I know how irritating it is to get a one-liner or a smiley as the entire post. I mean, I know I've probably done it myself and I do apologise, but I do know what it's like.
Blue: There were some extremely good threads that got lost in the homicide. It's really quite a shame. We may have to rebuild some of these threads (the ones that were actually on-topic) and who knows; we may get somewhere.
I have to be honest with you, though. When a post you've added 12 pages or so to gets wiped, it gets disheartening. I don't want to play with the Carla thread any more. It's just tiring, trying to write what you've already written or whatever. Most people won't bother, and then you'll end up with a million new threads which say exactly what the old ones said.