I think it is very easy to trash someone , very easy indeed .
I don't mind words like , suck , fuck , goddammit , eat me and stuff like that .
That is not what I am talking about .
We know. That's not what we're talking about either.
But what I do mind is the trashing of people .
Which is what we're talking about. People get trashed here. If you don't like it, leave. You're not going to change the face ot PSMBD.
Do you realize how hurtfull it can be , even though , you don't know the people and they don't know you , the power of words can be very strong .
Like I said, I've found threads and LJ entries trashing me, and it wasn't hurtful. It was people bitching. If someone is hurt by us bitching, they're the one with the problem.
Look at kids in playgrounds and how they pick on someone and how that can affect a child .
We aren't children.
Don't think for one minute that an adult can rise above that .
An adult can just hide his/her feelings better but evenso , it will hurt him/her .
An adult can rise above that. Like I said twice now, I've been there. Part of being an adult is accepting that not everyone likes you. And if you're putting yourself out there for thousands to see, there will be a larger amount of people that don't like you. And if you're apart of a community they will congregate and talk about you.