Damn, I just finished reading every post in this thread, Wow! I mostly lurk, but one of the places I could call home on the net was Insim and especally Insim Adult. I was in several contests there and didn't spend all of my time in lurk mode. I know that I will be hit with jugs of concrete and feed to sharks for the feel-good comment I am about to make.
I just want to thank you all for everything you've been doing to save the site, as it is the closest thing I have found to a home on the web.
Now I will hand out rum and donuts to all and return to lurk mode.
Thanks again!