One of my favorites is gigachanger at mts2.  He does some awesome skinning!
(((hugs)))
~Nan~

The last thing she is doing is upsetting me.  I ceased being upset a long time ago.  She is an offensive witch.  She is laughable in her inept use of the english language and her sad attempts at spelling.  She has a penchant for using words she doesn't know the definition of, let alone how to spell.  She is sad.
~Nan~

When Edna told me to check the forum and that I would be pissed at what Jan said I figured there would be something horrible on here.  Actually, I didn't see anything that really surprised me.  She is stooping to a new low, though, by giving out Marie's and my full real names.  If I could get hold of her right now I would bitch slap her from here to next week.  But I'm sure the blows would just bounce off her hard head with no effect.  I wish someone would put a muzzle on her.  Why didn't I respond to her invitation to join the group?  Reread her posts and you will have your answer.  She is a raving lunatic, and I have had enoughof her drama.  I have a daughter in law who contributes enough of that to my life.  
Jan, I know you're reading this, so just give it a rest.  Why are we laughing at you?  Because your performance is even funnier than the Church Lady on Saturday Night Live.  At least she is a made up character.  Sadly, you don't seem to see how ridiculous you look.  I loved you as a friend and would have done anything for you.  You have hurt me, belittled me with your lies and back stabbing, and you wonder why I won't have anything to do with you.  Just remember all the times you came crying to me when your kids screwed you over and when "Joe"  threatened to kick you out when you bought cars for said ungrateful brats and drained your savings account.  Keep my name out of your rants from now on.  I'm happier here and with the group as we have it now than I had been for the longest time while you were over the group.  Sayonara!  Auf weidersein!  Buenos Dias! Y'all don't come back now, hear?
~Nan~

Okay, everyone, I need opinions here....I have an invitation to join Jan's group...should I be the troll she accuses me of being? :twisted:   Haven't yet made up my mind.  Any thoughts?  I'd like to be a little cockroach in the cracks in her facade....lol!!! :!:
(((hugs)))
~Nan~

You know, in all my years of simming I think Jan is the only owner to post "rules" for a group.  We stated in United in Sims that our group would be a happy place to be because of the history of the group when Jan was there, but there are no rules.

Hey, Redlove.  Here's a link about my town.  http://www.cookeville.com/  it is the only Cookeville in the US.  A nice-sized college town where I have lived for 36 years.
(((hugs)))
~Nan~

Well, no end to the drama in the life of a former "Jan-ite".  LOL!! :lol:   Just got this in my inbox today
    Nan why would you want to be friends with people that cause problems in the Sims community if you can remember that is what started this whole thing. With my group you are now calling yours. If you want to join in with trolls and snakes that is your privilege do so.
 
I have made other friends also and good ones at that. Better than the trolls that you are around. Don't expect my friends to be your friends as they won't be there,for you.they  are all creators Nan.
They have higher standards than those of Trolls.
 
I just thought you my have wanted to hold on to our friend ship  
 
Thank is all and I will never write to you again Nan. I  don't want to get involved with trolls and pirates.
 
Kendra
Proof she is also Kendra...

Also had this...
You fucken bitch I found you out real quick ...this only the subject line , no message in the body.

But I have one quick question.
How do I report her?
This is getting old.

Oh, and whovever asked where in Tennessee I'm from, I'm from Cookeville, about halfway between Nashville and Knoxville.  Thought I had replied to that but realized I hadn't.
(((hugs)))
~Nan~

Sorry, but I have a lot of new friends, and have regrouped with some old ones (I think you might know quite a few of them) at the site that cannot be named.
~Nan~
P.S.  You may have forgotten that you called me a liar and a traitor, but I haven't.

This is my reply to Jan.  I had told her not to communicate with me anymore, that any e-mails would be deleted unopened, but decided this would be a real slap in the face and wake up call for her.

Here's an update and laugh for you!!  Got this in my e-mail just a few minutes ago!!  Do you suppose she thinks I've forgotten she called me a liar and a traitor?  I'm blonde, but I AM NOT dumb!!
"Why have you shut me out as your friend ? What did I ever do to you or the others. * exception Edna* we were friends for years hon , you followed me every where that I went. You and Michele.  I miss you all very much and i would like for us to remain friends.
 
Hugs Jan"

Sorry, Nan is short for Nanette...the name my mother unfortunately stuck me with at birth...I'll still take one of those hugs, tho!!!  LOL!!  And as "co-owner" of Refined Sims I was the one who was able to do all the over-turning for Edna.  We run the group as a team and don't make decisions that affect the whole group without checking with the other one first.  This has been a team effort from the start and will be until either one of us leaves or we agree mutually to close the group, which at this point, we're having too much fun to do!!!
(((hugs)))
~Nan~

She claims she does.  We'll have to wait and see.
(((hugs)))
~Nan~

ROFLMAO!!!
I want so much to learn how to recolor and to use paint shop pro.  I am so blonde sometimes it is hilarious!!!
(((hugs)))
~Nan~

Thanks, all of you for accepting me!  I was worried, because I know at one time some thought I was another of Jan's aliases.  Especially since my groups were tied to hers.  I could never understand why until I went to the tribal link.  I cut all ties with the group name change and changed the names of my groups as well.  It is so nice to have a group where I have a say-so in what is going on.  Edna and I are partners.  Neither has ultimate say so.  We confer with one another before we make a decision.  
As Edna said, I told her ahead of time I was going to divulge my real identity.  She assured me all of you would accept me, and I'm glad I did it.  All of you are welcome to join us at United in Sims.  We have a lot of fun, and it is all calm and peaceful.  I have quite a few movie posters, Edna has some wall art, Shelly has uploaded a house or two, and Jason has some wonderful sims.  We're just starting out, so there's not a lot, but we are all contributing what we can.
~Nan~

I am sooooo sick of all this shit!!!  She is a sick, delusional woman who's family I think is clueless as to what is happening with her.
I want to make a confession at this point.  I joined under an alias because I was afraid I would not be able to join because of who and what I am, and wanted to let everyone know exactly what is going on.  My confession is this:  I am Nan.  If you want to ban me now I understand.
I just wanted everyone to know my side of the story.  I never knew Jan before Sims 2, didn't know what she was capable of until everything came to a head in this last incident.  I tried to be a friend to her, to be patient and supportive.  My efforts were misguided, if sincere.
She had made me a co-owner of the group but I had no control of what went on in the group.  She would close the groups without asking me what my opinion was.  I had no input.  I was another of her pawns.  Please don't hold her actions against me.  I was cluesless until recently as to what she is.  
I checked out the tribal link and was appalled.  I recognized all the actions of the persons in those other groups/sites as being typical of Jan/Charlotte.  
Frankly, she scares me.  She has my home address and my phone numbers.  I worry she might decide to retaliate because I am a "traitor and a liar" for staying behind with Edna and giving her a hand getting the group back on stable footing.
Well, that's all I have to say.  I've come forward and revealed who I am to you.  And what you see is all I am.  I hope you let me stay, but I understand if you choose not to.
Thanks.
~Nan~