I'm curious why creators need to have TOSs to begin with. The way I look at it is you like the game(you do remember it's just a game, right?), you think it would be cool to make x item and share it with everyone. As long as you get full credit for being the original creator of x item, I don't see what your gripe is. Liegen is even going beyond that and giving links back, I think that's more than fair.
Also, I wasn't being mean or disrespectful to anyone and if it came across that way, I do apologize. I have several things by both HP and Lethe in my game and their efforts are greatly appreciated (and I almost always hit the thanks button), just not their attitudes. While what you make is really nifty, I think perhaps you should stand back and look at the big picture. You're creating for a video game, supposedly because you enjoy doing it and like knowing that others use your things. I think the long TOSs are just plain silly and make you look pretentious.
(Note that I'm using "you" in a general sense.)