snadra, word of advice: don't post your username on here. I'm guessing that was pretty easy for MTS2 to find you. Lots of big site owners are on the prowl here and watching. I would not treat PMBD as a place to "come out" - there is already another site where you can do this, PMBD is too public for that.
Its ok i came out here, cause i have another name on teh community as well, so they are not hurting me by banning me.