Ok, that video, srsly.    I was ascared!  Now for some cutesy kittehs!

  Well I for one wasn't so much offended by the ignorant comment about male rape, as I was about his blatant disregard for his mother's feelings. Talking about it nonchalantly as he/she did, just made me angry. Speaking as a person who has lived through that, if my child got on the internet and talked about anything I told them in confidence, I would beat the hell out of them.
 
  It is a highly personal issue and I am sure that if his/her mother wanted us to know about it, she bloody well would have told us herself.   

ETA: Just so you know, I wouldn't literally "beat the hell" out of them. Child abuse is wrong in all forms. It would be a cold day in Hell before I told them anything else though!

WTF? I am so very confused now. Can anyone explain please?   

   Most women and men who experience this horrible crime are made to feel like it is their fault. Like some how they did something wrong. Being in the wrong place at the wrong time, or having a piece of shit for a father, are all excuse that people have used. "If she didn't have that skirt on, she wouldn't have made all the men horny. She was asking for it.", or something completely idiotic like "He's a man, so he must have liked it. Hell, it was free sex!" Even if a person does change their mind, right before he puts it in, it would still be rape. Once you say no, if you are fortunate enough to be able too, they should stop. No matter their gender.

   The problem your mother probably had, is that no matter what kind of dick head your grandfather was, he was still her father. There is an absurd amount of shame and mixed feelings that comes along with being abused by someone who was supposed to protect you from such things. If he was as abusive as you are making him out to be, your grandmother probably wouldn't have left him anyway. Be it shame, disbelief or fear, the likely hood that she would have done anything is low. Most women in that situation are being abused themselves, and for whatever reason they feel if they take the brunt of it; then the abuser will leave the children alone. 

   I personally found your comments offensive not only as an abuse survivor, but as a human being. Your mother has been victimized enough, stop talking about her personal trials on the internet. I understand you are a teenager, and you probably don't have a bunch of experience with tact, but this is not something that should be discussed publicly. If you need to talk about your issues, feel free to PM me, but I think you should let this little incident die and talk about bad paysite finds or something.

 

  That was horrible! My husband looked over and asked why I was looking at "Sims porn"!    Not cool, at all.

   I would just like to add, that my boobs aren't fake either. That does NOT mean I want someone to rape me. What in the hell does one have to do with the other? 

 They aren't packaged together anymore. All of the old donation items are in the clothing sections. The formal is just under formal, everyday, etc. Understand? You probably have most of them downloaded and don't know they used to be donation items. 

Rum for you for not starting a new topic. Welcome aboard!

  ETA: Spelling all tardly is bad, mm'kay?!

 Ok, thats what it is. Sorry. I just spent all freaking day at the fair with my three year old. I think I might die.  They looked very similar to my weary eyes. LOL.

 On that first link, am I the only one who noticed her son and daughter seem to be making out? She introduces them as her son and daughter, but they are all over each other on the couch. Maybe she meant son in law? Please. 

 Red, I am so stealing that. It's perfection defined. LOL

    I will make an account over there now. We do need to try and stop this, its unbelievable. I cannot imagine any one over there is actually doing anything but counting money with garbage like this up for children to download.

 Oh Lord. I haven't thought about Mimi in ages! She still scares me, if Atwat is anything like her I am spending even less time at TSR.

You know, it might actually be a welcome escape. When they come to get me I will treat it like a vacation, but with more padding. 

Ok, so I have banned myself from here while I am at work. If I keep laughing out loud like I just did, someone will call the padded wagon.