I don't know if it's been mentioned yet or not, but HP changed her TOS to allow meshes to be redistributed:
I've changed my them to allow creators to include my meshes with their recolours (plus my new readme). Partly this was, well, because I wanted to change my profile pic (Pariah looks so cute upside down, doesn't she?) and partially because... I just can't bring myself to care anymore.
I still want a link and credit as I think that's perfectly fair and takes only a few keystrokes - no real effort... And I've kept track of the amount of time I take on meshes vs. textures recently and I've realized I spend about 3/4 of the time on anything doing textures, and only about a quarter of it on the mesh. And I already allow people to redistribute my recolours. So it makes logical sense - why protect something more that takes less effort and time?
I've also added a thing in there about mesh edits - a lot of people have been asking for teen versions of my Fanseefem meshes but I just don't play teens and I have a lot of things I'd prefer to do first. So... if someone wants to edit my meshes and they're not a total noob, sure. Ask me first (as I may already be working on an edit myself, so you don't have to). Let me help you if you need it, let me test it, do it right, and it's all good.
http://www.modthesims2.com/creator/journal.php?do=showentry&e=1333(I cut some of it out for length.)