I think I may need to get a life. I have sat here and read the majority of these posts, but I did that because Paden and I were talking about her a few days ago, and I admit I was curious.
I am, and have been a member of Jan?Charlotte? "RefinedSims2" yahoo group, or whoever she claims to be for quite a while. I shudder whenever I open an e-mail from her, but I do it for the stupidist reason. I just can't help myself, I have to know what tangent she is going off on.
Her spelling and grammatical errors are to me, like fingernails on a chalkboard. I never post anything, and have so far managed to control the impulse to send her an e-mail about her errors. So I think I may be under her radar. Thank the good Lord above for that small piece of good fortune.
I suffer from severe chronic, treatment-resistant depression. I am not even allowed to work. I take my medications faithfully every day. I call my Doctor when things are going badly. I do not take responsibility for my illness, but I do take responsibility for the treatment of my illness. Even in my darkest hours I would never send out e-mails as Jan does, nor would I flame anyone. That's just in poor taste.
Which brings me to my beef---Refined Sims?
Does Jan even understand the meaning of the word refined? Methinks the answer to that question is too obvious. You simply cannot connect the word "refined" with Jan, it's ludacris (sp, sorry)
I find it very sad that she has become such an attention seeking drama queen.
She's obviously never heard that, "Silence is Golden". She definitely belongs with the group, "The squeaky wheel gets the grease."
I do not know this woman personally, but I was friends with someone similar. He just couldn't live his life without constant drama and chaos. Being friends with him became quite literally exhausting.
So to sum it all up, I find Jan to be exhausting, and a wear and tear on my nerves. Sadly she does deserve the "Fuck Nut award.