Hecubus, I really believe this is the email that set her off and undid all your postive work.
"I don't know if you know this (and I sincerely hope I'm not one of an
influx of e-mails harrassing you about this.) I wanted to respect
your request not to post any more on this topic on the yahoo group.
Hecubus has listed Main Street Sims as a "killmark" and is bragging
about having shut you down. You can read about it at
http://phorum.mustnotbenamed.com/viewtopic.php?t=1085. Notice that
she is not respecting your wishes and freely states that she intends
to have your donation files hosted on the Sims 2 Graveyard site.
The original thread, where they're discussing the letter that was
forwarded to you, is at
http://phorum.mustnotbenamed.com/viewtopic.php?t=1065. I doubt
Hecubus let you know, though, that there has been some back peddling
from EA on this issue -
http://forums.sims2community.com/showpost.php? p=956880&postcount=483.
I would watch this carefully. Until EA makes an official statement,
it is clear that the support team is not the final word on what EA
legal will decide to do. I don't want to harrass or stress you. I
just wanted to make you aware of some facts so that you can make an
informed decision on your own. To these "pirates" taking down pay and
donation sites has become something of a game. I fear you have just
become the latest casualty.
I don't want to become a nuisance so I will shut up about this now.
Knowledge is power, though, so I wanted to make you aware of a few
things."
They put a negative spin on everything you did, and made her (Jan) feel like she was being played for a sucker. Does anyone know who sent this yet? Does Jan?